世上沒有所謂誰沒了誰生存不了，不過有誰或誰在的話比較好過點吧，我是這麼認為過。但原來有時對其他人好，反而會惹人厭煩；想和別人分享什麼時，卻是令別人困擾；嘗試傾聽某人的事，變了傷害了他。 沒有特別想過要自己讓人家快樂，更沒想過使人受到傷害。Maybe...the way to hell is paved with good intentions. 所以我還是將心思放在我關心得來的人吧，我不要人見人愛，也不想成為別人的煩惱。
（謎之聲：又嘗試將自己裝成很偉大的模樣了，這個不是正在逃避嗎？哈…… XD）
5 則留言:
無謂人，不要想得那麼悲。雖然不是每個人都珍惜你付出過的關心/慰問，但總有些人是感激你給他做的一切，只是不宣之於口吧。
Whenever I saw ppl being cool or even cruel to someone who is nice and caring to them, I used to think: I were that person to whom others were nice, I wouldn't react that way. I used to think I will appreicate their effort no matter what.
But one day when there were/are some ones who are being caring and nice to me, I do/did feel disgusted (of course my heart asked me not to show it as I dun want to hurt anyone, esp. those who are nice. Even though I can't help feeling disgusted).
To be frank, I used to think I was not that type of person but now I can understand the feeling of the receiver and the giver.
I have been a giver (who gives care to ppl who dun want it) and a receiver (who doesn't want to receive at all). People have a right to take or to leave it, even if you think that is something ppl shouldn't turn down.
That's life. You can't avoid being hurt or hurting someone even if you dun intend to do so.
One of our jobs here on earth is to grow strong in pain/love so as to protect ourselves and others from being hurt and to learn from mistakes so as to minimise the chance of hurting the others.
一粒米：
我只是介懷我真正關心那人的反應，其實我對很多人都很冷淡的（甚至乎冷酷）。XP
燒米餅：
Maybe the one that I can't really forgive is me myself alone, when the time you think you can do something to help but turn out you can't or you are not wanted. And ya, the receiver can take what I offer or leave it, so that's why I guess I better serve those who needed me. So at this moment, I'm graceful for those who accepted my blessing/helping, it's another kind of blessing I guess.
"I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love."
- Mother Teresa
你想說什麼？其實我不太想聽！
我是有心事，但對著你，卻不想講。
我不開心，只想說給你聽，你卻沒興趣知。
你有心事？可以告訴我！但你卻不想跟我說。
祝福你能找到互相想聽和想說的「那人」！
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